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For many years, I lived chasing social expectations.

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I felt late. I felt wrong. I felt like I was failing at life because I wasn't following the path I thought I was supposed to follow.

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I was chasing a career and carrying so many expectations about what success should look like. But one day, I asked myself:

"What does success actually mean to me?"

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The answer shocked me: working as much as possible, always pushing, never feeling like it was enough. And I realized something, I didn't actually want that life. Yet I kept running after it.

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I changed jobs. I changed countries. I kept choosing paths that went against what was expected of me, looking for something that felt more like me, while feeling both free and like a failure at the same time.

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Then I found something I was genuinely good at, and for a while it felt like I'd finally arrived. Until the same old pattern caught up with me from a different angle: I started demanding perfection from myself in a world where perfection doesn't exist. Every small mistake felt like proof I wasn't enough. That's how I ended up so burned out I couldn't get off the couch.

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That's when everything changed.

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I started questioning the beliefs I had inherited from my family and society. I began discovering what I truly wanted, what was mine, and what I had been carrying that was never really mine. Slowly, the anxiety started to soften, and I learned to let go of the constant feeling of not being enough.

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Today, I help others explore the same questions:

What do I genuinely want?
What belongs to me?
What are my real needs?
What belongs to my family, society, or other people's expectations?

[Read more about it here.]

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I also support people to speak their truth in their loving, friendship, and working relationships, without fear of feeding the conflict or being misunderstood. This is for you if you're tired of staying silent to avoid conflict, if you find it hard to set boundaries, or if you tend to explode once you just can't hold it in anymore.

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Through life coaching and conflict mediation, I support people in creating lives, relationships, and communication that feel authentic, compassionate, and aligned with who they truly are.

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If you're tired of living by "I should," and you're ready to discover what "I choose" looks like for you, you're welcome here.

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If you want to know more about how I question the "shoulds" in our society, and how I work on finding the "I choose," I invite you to listen to my podcast, Life Beyond the Checklist.